You are not here to make ANYBODY else happy.

You are not here to make ANYBODY else happy.

The other day I was speaking to somebody & they mentioned somebody else we knew. She told me that this person had said to them before that I live in a dream world. That I was deluded about my ideas of what I wanted out of my life. That me sitting and working in a [...]

New Beginnings.

New Beginnings.

At the beginning of this pandemic I had no intention of leaving London and choosing to leave the events industry. Barely a year after entering the profession I was freelancing with my own jobs and clients. I was pushing to take on more, and I was in denial that I was avoiding taking a leap [...]

What’s mine isn’t what’s yours.

What’s mine isn’t what’s yours.

Something I have really struggled with for a long time, and still do, is this idea that everyone has to want the same things as me. To want to achieve high. Travel. Have a career. Change the world. . . I really wish I understood why I feel so strongly about this, and why I [...]

Are you even listening?

Are you even listening?

The biggest communication problem is we do not listen to understand. We listen to reply. I've read this quote a few times. Each time I totally agree with it. In society today, I think we all have an awful lot to say. We have opinions about pretty much everything and sometimes tend to even give them when they aren't [...]

The good with the bad.

So as with all seasons we go through in life, some are good and some are bad. Learning to go with the flow of the, sometimes unbearable and hard waves, is all part of the journey. . . I am great at listening to another's issues and giving advice and looking at what is best [...]

Bring it on.

Bring it on.

I was writing my dreams down a few weeks ago, as I do everyday. and I thought to myself, I wonder how long I will write these down before I reach them?. . . For me, the end of year is a time to review the past 12 months and pat myself on the back [...]

Lets smash it!

Lets smash it!

At the end of each year I tend to do some reflection on the year and what goals I can achieve by Christmas to wrap the year up. Most people I have spoken in the last few months have agreed that this year has gone so so quickly and time is just shooting past. This [...]

Your words have so much power.

Your words have so much power.

Everyday I write my dreams down. Not the little ones, the job goals, the target weight, the holiday goal. I write the ambitious, audacious, gigantic, out of this world, crazy dreams.  I've never felt so much power as when I write them down. Every morning it's a reminder that no matter how I feel, or [...]

It’s that time.

It’s that time.

I was speaking to a friend at the weekend who said Autumn was the worst season. Everything dies and it's all brown and dark. Autumn is my favourite season. I love the beautiful shades of green, orange, red, yellow and brown that run thorough the trees. The crisp breeze that makes you pull your coat [...]